The power of massage
One of my favourite times when I had newborns was the part of the day that I would massage them before bed. At around 8 or 9 months they would no longer lie still and so massage in our household hasnt happened for a long time. After a bath every night, both Tom (4) and Dan (19 months) jump on the bed and and scream excitedly. Both my boys have skin conditions that require cream frequently, but most nights it is a bit hit and miss as I try to get cream on them whilst they jump on the bed, run away or hide under the blankets. It certainly is not a calm time of day. This week I decided to change things. I told Tom he needed a massage and how relaxing it could be. I did get him to lie down and started at his toes and worked my way up. Within seconds he had calmed down and was actually enjoying it. When I did his back I noticed that he even began falling asleep. Drool started to flow and he was lost in the moment. Dan ofcourse wanting to copy his brother also calmed down enough for a massage, although he liked to stand for his and we cuddle and whisper in each others ears. Each night since Tom has asked for his massage and truely it has calmed our evenings down. Taking the time for a massage, even just a few minutes is both calming for them and for me. I am once again loving it.